He was the heart fields that you sprinkle with love
and you pick up the fruit of gratitude
He's also the cool shade keteduhanmu
A fireplace for warmth sukmamu
Because you walked on stage liver arid hunger,
And look at when people need peace
Kahlil Gibran poetry piece that suddenly appeared on the head when an old friend greeted longing from there. Exhilaration created by the chatter of noisy laughter ditingkahi like to meet the chest cavity. Nearly fifteen years we never met and lost track of each other, but apparently God has other ways to bring back our communication had been lost. Yes Lord, thank you for your gift today ...
Old stories, new stories and stories in each other when we find the existence of another flow without stopping. No longer concerned about long-distance pulse, two and a half hours we were singing and shouting with a call back when I was old school. There was laughter and even tears flowed listening times the friend lost his loved ones, mother, brother and beloved youngest son. Yes, times when I should be on his side. There is regret sneaking in the corner of the liver.
Actually, unfulfilled longing, but a chat with forced quits before exchanging phone numbers and appointments will continue to keep in touch. I can still see the face of his mother who was always 'force' lunch every time I visited her in the cafeteria of a university in Bandung. And then the mother is very busy. Probably sorry to see the face of the starving children boarding and mothers seem well aware of my moral hazard, had come to visit during lunch.
Fifteen years is not a short time, people can change for the better or vice versa. Some are due to the influence of the position and the position became very changed from who we met before. Luckily we both still like the first, maybe just because we're both nobodies. No positions and positions that invite admiration, that changed is we now no longer young but has already become a mother and we are equally proud of it.
The dynamics of friendship as a collection of colors of the rainbow, there is no moment when light and dark which gives its own color to the beauty of friendship. Like flavor while enjoying the beautiful lotus flower blooms pink in the dim twilight.
Companions can be united with the presence of one or more equations. Ideally, he is someone who brings us closer to goodness, which can be bent with the gift of gratitude for the blessings, laugh or cry together and reinforce each other when one is in a weakened state. Also someone who will remind even poked at the other negligent and deviated from His ways. Regrettably there is also a friendship which was pushed to the setback. Seeing the success achieved by others allied to even be suspicious. Can not keep quiet when someone achieving more than what they have achieved or even banded together to put others down. What a pity to waste the energy to things that are useless like that, which takes us even further away from the goal of life.
Undeniably there is a relationship or a mutually beneficial symbiotic mutualism in friendship but there is also a lesson in it is learning to give and receive (give and take), learn to hear and be heard, too erodes the ego and keep learning empathy.
Respect privacy, including tips awetnya friend relationships, like the book there are sheets that do not need to be read and opened with a clearly without good pleasure. A good friend knew exactly when our buds and blooms. Among the indicators of a healthy friendship is a friendship that does not make us closed to association with others, who can still maintain objectivity, the nuances of honesty, which brings a sense of comfort and which need not compel us to continue to use the mask.
Proverb says to make enemies easier than finding a friend. When we fight a different opinion as there are some missing in the self. Though friendship is not always agreed. There are differences that make it varied, more important is how to understand and appreciate the difference.
One other story, I became've got a valuable lesson how friendship can be damaged by emotional moment and a misunderstanding. When we arrived at a phase of full awareness that it's all just part of the full dynamics of youth, a friend had lost not necessarily missing. Had heard the news he had been there far in the island. Prostrate surrender to the Divine because it has been decided relationship without knowing how to connect it again.
Once again the Creator willed, everything that could not be possible. Thanks to our social networking sites to reconnect after years of not met. Apology for any mistake was the first greetings spoken as he welcomed me. Thankfully we forgive each other. Apparently the years lost has been maturing both of us. Referred to a close friend who may happen to read this, hopefully you and your family are always in ridhoNya blessing.
In this Kompasiana we met many new friends. Friendship is no distinction as to age and status are only united by the interest in writing, reading the writings of others, or just commented. A form of friendship the other one, no less warmth though not always met. One of the formerly admitted kompasianers friends with lonely lonely may now no longer. Beautiful friendship cyberspace I found here. Hopefully this friendship also helped enrich the soul.
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